Teach your child the Arranging

Do you feel that you do a lot of whining and complaining every time you ask your child to say "please"? Tired of remind him arrange his toys? Here's a proven way to make your little angel improves behavior.

We all want our children to enjoy the good morals and healthy habits, and smile a broad smile filled with pride when they lead by example that they are best created in kindergarten. But at any age your child is actually able to sit quietly when requested to do so, and to arrange his toys or to be polite, and what is the best way in which you can to reach your massage ?

According to the specialist child psychology Dr. Richard Wolfson, author of «why the children do this?» The «solution is to start teaching good habits and promotion in a very young age, up to months in some cases, even become habits automatic. And you have to be an example to them and interpret them the reason behind the importance of certain habits.

Arranging  games
Experts say that this rule should be applied early, and a 18-month-old child can enjoy the game "Let's get our games in place with you" But expect to continue to do so until your daughter reaches four or five years, or let every child of your children is responsible for a different game, or you can play fun music and dance by arranging games.

And you should not forget to tell them the reason of the importance of arranging. And can make it clear to your daughter by saying: "it makes sense to put games away because it means they'll be able to find dolls, cars, tea set more easily" Try using colored boxes to make the task easier.

Washing hands after eating
According to Dr. Miriam Stoppard, author of the new child care, and an expert in M ​​& B: "that accustom a child to wash his hands before eating should begin during that phase where the child starts to crawl and make his hands dirty". She says that "the solution is to make it fun, as put soap on your hands can be fun".
You can be transformative to the game by trying to blow bubbles formed between your thumb and forefinger when you make circle. Sally adds: "I replaced soap by liquid soap mailbox with bright colors"
 Sally Wilson, Cecily's mother, three years ago. "Easier for Sisley to use it is like filling the basin and make bubbles in the water".

Not to play with food at mealtimeThe best way to instill table manners in your daughter is to let her join the family meals. Miriam explains, saying: "She will be able to see what is happening around them and eventually  will get used to the customs benign and good behavior that must be followed when eating.

With the end of her first year, your daughter will be able to get used more to feed herselve. But do not expect her to sit at the table in an appropriate manner at this age. A child at this age will be familiar to crawl and roaming, therefore, it would be unwilling to sit in one place for a long time. If your child insists on down from her seat, let her down, but let her come to sit again after five minutes, and you will quickly learn that food means to sit and eat.

How to be graceful after giving birth?

Do you abide by  healthy dietary rules and do sports activities for strength to be graceful and beautiful after birth? or do you improve to Beauty and fitness leave your body, and you feel embarrassed and dissatisfaction about yourself? did you change to clothes style, did you buy what suit and the new format!

This survey shows you some ways to get slim waist and shapely body. 

Q1: Do you drink a lot of fluids like milk and barley soup and malt drinks? 

a- Yes

b- Sometimes

Q2: inclined to fruits and fresh green leafy vegetables!

a- Always

b- No

Q3: Breastfeeding women need extra calories rate of 700 calorie; to secretion milk in the breast.

a- A fact I've read

b- I don't know

Q4: You have to eat more protein - eggs, cheese and legumes for better breastfeed.

a- Yes

B- No

Q5: it is necessary to obtain vitamins A, B, C from natural sources, such as milk and fresh fruits and vegetables.

a- Yes

b- I try

Q6: You take your comfort from sleep and relax for at least 8 hours!

a- Yes

b- I try so hard

Q7: Attention to the quality of food and away from the fat with some sports ... is the way to agility after birth.

a- Shure

b- Somewhat

Q8: Muscle strengthening exercises, keeps the breast size and strength and help to carry the child and his responsibilities.

a- To a large extent

b- To what extent

ResultsIf most of your answers "A"

You are a beautiful woman and mother, set fitness goals seek it, and it's not difficult, and does not need to suffer, just commitment by the healthy food rules to increese ability to secrete liters of milk each day for your child -also identified doctors- with muscles strengthen exercises that you can have a slim waist and shapely body after birth.

Though most of your answers "b"

We afraid that you obese and fat, And warn of postpartum depression! Like I see you see your body in mirror and may be sad , physical strength isn't able to assume the responsibilities of your child, and this makes you feel like a state of grief and the inability to do something positive!

But with the selection of healthy food and do some exercises, back pain away from you, muscle tension, and dis psychological pressures, rising your energy levels, and you can counter anxiety or depression, sport open appetite and make your sleep more comfortable, With a sense of a beautiful serenity psychological.

What do you know about the signs of autism?

Autism affects evolutionary device for children, it appears during the first three years of age, and continue with him for lifelong.. so what do you know about this disease?
We will correct your information through this simple test:

Q1. Autism is a disability that affects child's brain development and continuance
a- I know
b- I don't know

Q2. Symptoms of autism continue with the child for life

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q3. Incidence of 1 of every 500 children, and affects males more than females at a rate of 4: 1.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q4. Disease due to organic and chemical agents.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q5. Quarter of autistic intelligence in the normal range

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q6. The main symptoms are specific repetitive movements.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q7. Patient don't rejoice to see his mother, do not look to the person who spoke to him, suffers from hearing problems and his behavior is rude.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q8. Behaves like living in a world of its own and alone.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q9. Starts deteriorating skills after the age of 24 months.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q10. Haunted by bouts of screaming, swinging forward and back..focuses on the forms and figures.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Q11. Some gave them aggressive behavior, and 10% of them have special talents.

a- I know
b- I don't know

Results:
If you had many information (8 - I know) then you are familiar with good and sufficient signs of autistic child, and it's nice to know that the autistic child's family not only have recourse to  speech and language's disease specialist  to assess the situation first..  access to the rehabilitation process.

Our advice: Learn about diseases that affect the child ..Manifestations, their causes and ways to deal with them.

If most of your answers "I don't know" this is a significant shortening as a mother, You should follow the negative phenomena that you see on the child  in his words and deeds, such as the delay in speech, or unduly aggressive behavior, or difficulty in the use of pronouns.

Our advice: any diagnose  based on direct observation and accurate to the child's behavior and his relationship with his close persons, addition to his growth rates, is it healthy or late?

read also:
Children with Autism

Fat affect on fetus weight and his life

Researchers at the University of Southampton UK Confirmed that, eating pregnant large and elevated amounts of fats in cooking oils, nuts, may affect birth weight in fetus life,
and advised pregnant eating more fish oils known amino acids "omega-3", which gives the fetus after birth life better, the children who were born to mothers who used higher levels of "omega-3" during pregnancy, found to have a greater fatty lumps in their bodies.

As studies have confirmed by researchers Hospital Princess Alexandra U.S., found that women who have undergone surgery for weight reduction, need when postponing the idea of pregnancy for at least one year after surgery to safe their pregnancy, some studies have indicated the potential risk of premature labor between women who undergo surgery treatment of obesity , and only become pregnant within a year of surgery, stressing that the fetus is facing a shortage of nutrition affects growth, obesity also increases the risk of gestational diabetes.

On the other hand, researchers research Center of Public Health in Spain, that breast milk contains over of 700 species of bacteria, help the child to digest milk or strengthen his immune system, and has their analysis samples of «colostrum», the first milk secreted mother after birth , and samples of milk after 6 months of birth, showing the presence of bacteria in the baby's mouth, and pointed out that women who suffer from overweight or who cesarean surgery conducted have milk contains less diverse bacteria



Beware of obesity with pregnancy!

Dangers of smoking on baby

The figures tell us that 45% of women smokers aged 20-35 years is the age of marriage and pregnancy and lactation and reproduction! In contrast, a scientific fact confirms that: 35% of the children of smokers pregnant less intelligence than others, and develop a degree of mental retardation and other problems.

Hence the importance of studies, issued by the "Maternal and Child Health" at Ain Shams Specialized Hospital about the dangers of smoking on the fetus and pregnant or breastfeeding for the baby, and was supervised by a specialized group of professors of pediatrics and psychology and sociology. By answering mothers questions.

intensive therapy 

Q. Are infant and child influenced by what is known as passive smoking?

Babies breathe at a faster rate, so constantly develop medical problems may intervening intensive care rooms, and smoking in front of them, they can inhale about -102 pack of cigarettes - up to the age of five.

Smokers pregnant

Q. To what extent does women's addiction of smoking on the fetus time of conception?

1- Addiction lead to injuries to the fetus, and may continue until after the birth, and cause intrauterine growth inhibition, and the incidence of deformities and bleeding in the brain, and eye injuries.

2- Percentage of fertilization to less than 50% as a result of abuse of the process of storing  oocytes. That the negative impact of nicotine.

3- Anticipating abortion during the first two months of pregnancy, or drop the fetus frequently, and many times ectopic pregnancy occurs, and double this by the amount of cigarettes that you take smoked per day.

4- Premature birth or early placental abruption, as double placental hematoma behind more than twice.

5- Along with delays in the growth of the fetus inside the uterus, and that 11% of fetal death due to smoking.

Degree of adaptation

Q. Is there a risk during the situation?

Increases fetal mortality before childbirth, as less able adapt newborn with the environment then, and decreases weight proportional to the number of cigarettes smoked per day, and there respiratory diseases such as: asthma, skin infections, infections ear central, in addition to decreased intelligence capacities of the child and the difficulties in the process of conservation, with overgrowth in the movement, and quarrelsome and behavioral disorder.

Smoke continues

Q. What happens if the mother continues to smoke after childbirth?

Smoke moves through the channels feeding, causing the infant lethargy, sleep excessive, asthenia with a weak ability to breast, and the milk reduces substantially to 690 instead of 960 toxic substances "nicotine" in  smoke through milk, affects the respiratory system of the infant .becoming more and has a ratio of respiratory diseases; cough, asthma and bronchial infections and throat

Pampering delay your child's pronunciation!

Did you know that the pamper which is beyond its normal limits affect your child's delay in speech, This is illustrated by Dr. Dinoco Brazilian Santos, who specializes in psychology.

Confirmed DR. Dinoco, that pamper the child is unusually leads to the weight in his tongue, and be crying is the only way to get what he wants, which is something that makes learning to speak in the second place, and instead of trying to speak refers to the front of things tend to parents to meet what he wants Even without trying to repeat the name of the thing.

Child starts since the fifth month of the old issue sounds to communicate with others, and when he reaches the tenth month utter words indicate the father and mother, and when he reaches his first spoken words understood by adults.

Dinoco continues: «The child did not speak after the second year, parents feel that there is something wrong organically prevents him from speaking, and some even believe that their child is dumb, but the real factor discovers when parents are asked about how their dealings with him. The highlight of being discovered is that they pampering exaggerated.

Dinoco advised parents thus:

1- When your child starts issuing votes since the fifth month of age, words extensively to learn the structure of words.

2- Know that pampering needs extraordinary efforts to start again to educate him.

3- If  a child learning speech at a later stage may suffer from difficulty in exits of some of the words in the future.

The benefits of breastfeeding for the baby

Mother's milk is the ideal food for her baby, it has specialty  that distinguish according to the needs of the baby food required by the typical of growth.

 An English research have shown that premature babies breast milk wet nurse with higher intelligence of preterm wet nurse formula milk (beef or vegetarian).

The human milk because food composition easy to digest and does not cause gas and constipation, because it contains the amounts proportionate to the need of the baby of lactose (milk sugar), protein and fatty acids.

In addition to the large proportion of mothers leave breastfeedin for lack of servo and the right support. Nevertheless, the foreign societies are more holding to breastfeeding, to their reliance on scientific evidence confirms preference breastfeeding on synthetic feeding.

Breast milk has many avail  for the baby, including:

1- Less likely to cause  sensitivity.

2- There are  many minerals, vitamins and enzymes to help digestion.

3- The components give actual immunity  to the child and is equal to the mother's immunity.

4- Antibiotics make baby less prone to ear infections, bronchitis, and intestinal and respiratory infections.

5- Components make children less likely to overweight and obesity and less injury by excessive cholesterol andarteriosclerosis and diabetes in adulthood.

6- Found that cariogenesis of  tooth decay when children naturally wet nurse and that the lack of sugar in milk.

7- Exists at any time, any place and available on demand at the lowest cost to the mother.

8- Has always the right temperature, a completely fresh and clean and does not need to sterilize.

9- Breast sucking help the growth of the jaw muscles and bones of the face of the baby as a whole.

you may also like:
Not Enough Breastmilk?

The benefits of breastfeeding for the baby

4 Positions for healthy breastfeeding

Study: Breastfeeding improves lung function in children